I have chosen not to have kids. Had some Brit dude who caught his Japanese wife sneaking off to concerts behind his back to be fair and firm to his wife.

He gives me this bullshit that I am "bitter against" women and I need not to be so cynical. But says it in this really nice way. Here's the part I responded to that pissed me off (and a lot of his post was what I felt was slight digs at me)Was I wrong to take a cheap shot back since he said this shit to me,

As a frequent lurker on this forum for some time, although I don't post much, I am quite acquainted with you, Todd Fletch. You post a lot, and there is much in your posts that I find incomprehensible--absurd even. But you have a valiant honesty about you which is admirable, and I can tell that other members of this forum think so too. Reading your current post, it seems that you have had some difficult experiences in your relationships with women. I have too. I have been brutalized by certain women. Hence, I am now 45 years old, without a family, and seeking advice in this forum. But I will not give in to cynicism--and that is my valiance. As people looking for love, we have to be smart and strong, but we have to be vulnerable and forgiving too. It's a difficult balancing act, isn't it.

Anyway here's exactly how I reply to that. Here's the end of the excerpt of my long post

Sorry to talk about me so much but you pretty much put down everything about me in this REAL NICE INGRATIATING way and I beg to differ. If I ever get foolish enough to knock some broad up, at least my kids will be 100% European blood. How is that for ya, Mr Condescending there? Have a nice day.

I know some men have mixed children on that forum (it's a straight man's dating/marriage forum). I almost feel like that was too much of a cheap shot. But felt he snuck it in at me with his post.

Was I too much of a dick taking an ad hominem shot? Or was he asking for it, perhaps being a little too condescending? Basically I don't want to be called "racist" in a way. On the other hand, if some race traitor tries to insult me with backhanded compliments, is not he and his fucking mongrel halfbreeds that shit all over the parent tree of his parents NOT fair game? Or am I just being crazy? I am 41, should be old enough to know and all, but could use a second opinion. (I always keep my WN feelings in the motherfucking closet and whenever I get fucked with by some anti-white, I bring it out in ahem nicely dressed up insults on occasion...am I CRAZY or SANE here?)