Some women actually understand that treating men and women the same (as equals) leads to women losing against men. In fact, being a woman is a handicap for life, and women need metaphorical handicap boxes to stand on in order to get level with men. Strange admittance, but look at this piece of feminist propaganda.

So women really do want to be treated like children. I guess what bothers them is that they don't want anyone to explicitly point this out so they can continue to cos-play as adults in life.