I think I got this off a pick up artist site. Thought it was interesting.

THE MENTAL ASSAULT, OR MINDFUCK, FORMALLY DEFINED

1. The Mental Assault is a political manoeuvre. The female manipulates the male into a position where she could have sex but refrains from doing so.
2. She maintains and perpetuates the male in a state of arousal or false expectation.
3. She scores points to bolster and satisfy her ego.
4. She evokes images of granting sexual favours to another (the more perverse her selection, for these purposes, the better) but grants them to the male or males in her audience either rarely or never.
5. She quits from a male suddenly or prematurely, because she prefers to Assault rather than engage in a proper relationship.
6. She grants and withdraws sexual favours to a male with whom she is involved in a relationship without logic or reason.