80% of my sexual partners - straights

"A woman can not deliver the pleasure of the man," - so says kramatorchanin-gay. He told our correspondent about his attitude toward love, sex, careers through the bed and Kramatorsk coterie.

Cyril (name changed) about 30 years. He is - gay. He says that everyone in town knows it, and nothing in this unusual about it, but to call his real name he did not want.

We are sitting in one of the best cafes. Cyril smokes one cigarette after another and sipping cocktails "Casanova". He was confident that 60% of men - hidden gay and suggested that if anyone interested in a future article, so this man is one of them.

"Ardent persecutors are gay, too gay"

- How do you realize that you are - gay?

- Let's just say: not the first sexual experience. This uniquely. Sociology says that most boys and girls have tried this option as a teenager, and not the fact that they will become gay or lesbian.

When I realized? Really realize in 16 years when I took and realized that I like it more. Naturally, when there is a first experience, a little unusual sensations. At first you do not know what to do, then you know: but, in fact, what is the problem?

- And you began to live with this ...

- What to do? There is a choice? No choice, it is established by nature.

- Established by nature?

- Yes of course! Discover the history, Ancient Rome, Ancient Greece, they have been in the laws that the military must necessarily be gay. It was believed that the lover will never betray her lover.

Let's dig further. See channel "National Geography", there are films, which clearly states that only one kind of animal perceives homosexuality negatively. This is - people. All other creatures are doing it as much running. Woe from Wit.

- Why do people perceive homosexuality negatively?

- Not all. On the relationship affects many factors: religion, traditions, patterns. We - the people of post-Soviet space, we have at one time been for this article in the Criminal Code. Naturally, for our people is bad, it's frightening. And abroad related to this is simple: "Gay?" So what? ".

By and large people do not care about other people. They do not care who you sleep with, what you breathe, what are you, if you die of starvation - they LinkBacks.

Not everything is just so, who is also gay, but afraid. Rabid persecute gays are gay. They are afraid, they envy those who can live openly. They can not, because the brain is not so settled.

I tell you that it's much easier to get acquainted with the girls, if you are - gay. When they find out about this, they have triggered such shtuchka: "It is interesting, but what are boys better than me?" It can not be necessary to prove the opposite. "

"Women in sex can not do anything"

- So, you sleep with guys and girls?

- Depending on what I want. I know all this was, at first I actually slept with boys and girls. And farther, the more I was disappointed in the girls.

- Why did they disappoint you?

- They have sex can not do anything. The ability to come to them with age 30-35 years. And the thing that the guy knows his body, he knows where he pleased, the other guy knows it too. And the girl did not know she had another body.

I tell you that 80 if not 90% of my sexual partners were just not gay, but natural, ordinary men. Gay my friends, and sleep with them often. Just a natural specimens easier.

- What is easier? How do you know them and bring to bed?

- As usual. The only thing that straights in order to relax and take this step, you need a drink - to remove barriers.

When you meet with a gay, you already know everything, as it will be that and what would - absolutely uninteresting. All of these presses, showy affectation, coquetry - it's annoying, it is unpleasant.

With specimens of nature differently. Natural in everyday life have to be a man, be a leader. He must care for the girl to spend some money to do all that she was satisfied. He must, must, must ...

But in fact, men - are the same people, like women. They also want to be coddled, that they would pay attention, gave gifts, love. They also want to have sex, but not work, because many men are just working girls, and not having sex, and it is - the problem.

We have a saying: "straights not happen, they just have not met a real man." This is a very vital proverb.

I usually do not meet with them, they get acquainted with me. And me - 29 years old, and get to know 17-19-year-old boys. Found some freaky reason, sit down, drink, begin to hint, and so on. And when they get into bed - wherever sought - they get it.

The next morning, many are pretending that nothing had happened. But not for long Well, that wants to always, if you have ever tasted.

- That is a man ever become gay?

- They will either clog in itself is somewhere deep, or search for a similar case.

I had a boy, with whom we met on the Internet. I came to him a separate apartment, a candle, wine, everything is fine. Went well, I think, need to talk, meet, before having sex. We sat down, communicate, and he told me and says: "Let's start, let's not linger." At first I was shocked. Later it turned out that people in life - na. His itch, I wanted to, he found a guy from another city, so no one knew completely anonymous. He received his pleasure, we departed and forgotten as each other's name.

Here you and Natural! And such examples can I give a lot. That is the fashionable young people, which is near the Central Department Store is going and the clubs tusuetsya, where girls boiling water to write, most of them had come into my bed.

"The child must be a complete family"

- How do you feel about the legalization of same-sex marriages?

- It will not change anything. What is printed in the registry office? Even many straights live without it calmly and having children.

- You know cases where a gay couple raising a child?

- This is not permitted by law. And it is not necessary. The child must be full-fledged father and mother. Even if the father - a gay, not necessarily that the child lived in a gay family.

I want a child and I know that many gays want children, and believe me, they will love them no worse than straights, and even steeper.

Just enough to make a bogus marriage with a girl, make her child, to help him financially, educate. Why break the psyche of the child from childhood?

- And if the child later learns, is not traumatic child?

- I think that initially do not have to drive a child that bad, but it was good. Are we gods? There are good and bad and have gay and straight people have.

You know, there are gay, and is null ... Aras. If a man stole a purse from a woman - a pi ... Aras, and with whom he sleeps - does not matter.

- You want to have a baby? With whom?

- There is a candidate, but I'm not in a hurry. The child - a fierce responsibility. It is necessary that stability, confidence, and in our country can be confident in something?

- And your candidate knows about your orientation?

- Yes, he knows. Why hide it? I tell you, women are factories. I've had sex three of us: me, boy and girl. The girl looked at us with open mouth, then joined. The second time I spotted a guy with a girl barely in their ears pulled by this spectacle.

"My mother sometimes making fun of me"

- And your mother knows that you are - gay? As she took the news?

- Knows. Behaved remarkably well. I am a mother - son, and I do not blame the fact that I am, and it's not her fault, it's nature.

- How do you tell her about it?

- Was a holiday or something like that. I decided to test the waters, asked my mother: "If suddenly I have to go to have sex with men, to build a career?". It's no secret that the higher the social level, the higher the percentage of gays. 90% of our elite, including Kramatorsk - gay. I will not name names, but if you knew you would be very surprised.

Most guys do not stop to his career nothing. Honor, chastity, ass - an empty sound. They agree on everything, but some do it for a bottle of vodka, the other for something more solid ...

So, I asked my mother: "If I have to do it for a career, how would you react?". She asked me one question: "What is it?". I was so surprised! Parents, especially mothers, everyone can see and understand everything, it helps to look at it through his fingers. They hope: "Well, maybe a stroll, senses.

This is absolutely not spoil relations with her mother, she sometimes even making fun of me, teasing. No shame in a friendly.

- A father took?

- I have no father.

All because of prostate

- Do gays have a division into "boys" and "girls"?

- This is a template, and it has established itself not only in the straights, but also gays. Separation of the "boys" and "girls" depends on the physiological structure of the body. The man has such shtuchka - prostate gland. She is very sensitive, much more sensitive than the head of the penis. If it is close to the edge ... Well, how to explain, well, where necessary (laughs), while men prefer the passive version. When it includes, respectively, stimulate the prostate gland.

If a man of iron is far away, then come in there, do not come in, there will be no sensation. The unit just that.

I would say that most straight people, with whom I slept, were passive. That is, they got what they lacked with women. Recent never guess that the anus of a man - this is a very erogenous zone, and the fact that there shove your finger, they have a mind is not enough. Especially if the girls 17-19 years.

Gays in fact universal. In life need to try everything. I tried the passive, I is not no way, so do not practice. But if I come across guys who are like, but that only asset, has to sacrifice something.

- Between the gays can be long-term relationship?

- Can. In fact, no matter who he met: male-female, male-male, female-female. This raises questions of compatibility, that of straight people that gay people. If people begin to live together, there are various domestic issues: who washes the dishes, who removes, why come too late and so on.

I've got a friend who lived 12 years with a man. I had three years: the two met, and one - lived together. If it were not for problems with psychological compatibility, it would live on.

- Love can be between gay?

- Of course. All people fall in love. I loved two women in his life, madly in love. Loved guys. You love not the body, and the image, the quality, look, behavior, tone of voice. It does not matter what sex you are.

How gay

- Your orientation has helped to advance in their careers?

- Absolutely not. Unfortunately. I just look back and see that if I had known in his time, that a man - gay, then I would have done his career much faster. Now I would not make a career in such a way, because I know how I will refer to people who helped me. Many tried to help my career. And as I am now to him? "A hole ... Do you? No question, for 5 cents take.

Career to do his mind, his professionalism, his abilities.

- In Kramatorsk many gays?

- Very much. I did not think, but they are many.

- There are places where they congregate?

- We have Kramatorsk no. Because if any place oblyubuyut gays, there immediately begin tusit all straights. All were pursuing fashion. "Yeah, there are a lot of glamorous boys going, there is a fashionable place, let us and we'll hang out there." And there, where you can sit, talk, meet, tusuetsya people who do not have to do with it yet and dresses as well as gays.

Now it is very difficult to distinguish gay from straight people by their clothing, the earring, rings on fingers, almost impossible. Difference can only view. When you walk down the street, you are probably looking at others, evaluate them. When you see a woman, what you see first?

- Begin with the eyes, then everything else.

- Why the eye?

- Eyes can say a lot, for example, the availability of women.

- Right! Similarly, in men. If you go down the street, you looked into the eyes of man, and then sharply down, and then sharply includes cold "- is gay. He will simply appreciated. If you turned around and he turned around, can be dealt with safely and learn. If you did not turn around, you're not his type.

Alex Ladyka
http://vp.donetsk.ua
November 27, 2009

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